choose to believe or investigate the truth?

to believe is truly a choice...

when we choose to believe someone it's because we want to, not because he/she has earned our trust.

when we want to believe, we would, and eventually will... actually, we really don't have much choices here.

if we choose not to believe someone then the only way is to investigate the truth...it's more exhausting and often would be a disastrous end.

but before we investigate are we prepared for the truth? often before we ask a question, we already have the answers in our mind. the only question is, is this the answer we're seeking for? or we believe otherwise?

then why ask?

is it just because you wanna hear the "answers" that would satisfy your below average self-esteem? often we said, i wanna hear the truth...are we really ready to accept the truth?

most of the time, we prefer people to lie to us when it comes to the ugly truth. we want the answers that sooth our heart. but at the same time, we want the truth...sad but truth...we most of the time, really don't know what we want...hehe..

i was once told, ask the right question. if you don't know what you're seeking for, don't ask.

well-said, if we don't know what are we asking, we'll never get the answers that we want. well, probably we would need to ask many questions to find the answers. damn tiring to ask...and damn tiring to answer...maybe that's why couples stop communicating after few years...maybe they already made their choice, choose to trust.

after reading this you may not agree..but at the end, the choice is yours, you may choose not to believe... ;)

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